Si rimwe si kabiri abantu bumva impaka za ngo turwane hagati y’abasore n’inkumi zibashinja ko ari bo babateye inda.

Abasore ntibapfa kwemera ko bateye inda; babanza kubyitondera kuko kubihubukira babifata nk’iby’umuntu ushaka kwambuka umugezi n’amaguru atabanje kuwupima uburebure.

Ku rundi ruhande ariko hari abumva ko kuba umukobwa n’umuhungu cyangwa umugore n’umugabo bafite ubuzima buzira bakora imibonano mpuzabitsina bihagije ko umwe yatera undi inda.

Gusa sibyo kuko bisaba ko umukobwa cyangwa umugore aba ageze mu gihe cy’uburumbuke. Nibwo akora imibonano mpuzabitsina idakingiye akabasha gusama, niba nta kindi kibuza iri sama gishingiye ku miterere y’umubiri we cyangwa uwa mugenzi we.

Nyamara bamwe mu bakobwa baganiriye na IGIHE, harimo abagaragaje ko badafite ubumenyi buhagije ku bijyanye n’ubuzima bw’imyororokere n’imiterere y’ukwezi kwabo, bakaba bashobora kwibeshyaho iminsi mike ku yo batekerezaga ko bazagira mu mihango n’igihe bazarangiriza iminsi y’uburumbuke.

Ibijyanye n’ukwezi kw’umugore

Abahanga mu bijyanye n’ubuzima bw’imyororokere bavuga ko ku mukobwa ugira iminsi y’ukwezi iri hagati ya 27 na 31,ahereye ku munsi wa mbere yaboneyeho imihango ari na wo aheraho abara iyo minsi igenda yisubiramo buri kwezi.

Bene uwo ntashobora gusama mu minsi irindwi ibanziriza ukwezi kwe; ntanashobora kuba yasama kandi mu minsi nk’iyo ibanziriza undi munsi ateganya kuzaboneraho imihango izakurikiraho,gutyo gutyo.

Nyuma y’iyo minsi irindwi uhereye ku wa munani,ukabara iminsi 12 yitwa iy’uburumbuke, iyo minsi 12 irangira ku munsi wa 19 ubariyemo na ya yindi irindwi ya mbere [iminsi irindwi ikurikira imihango utabasha gusamamo wongeyeho iminsi 12 y’uburumbuke ihwanye na 19 ]. Ubwo mu yindi minsi isigaye ngo uzabone indi mihango na bwo ntushobora gusama.

Udafite ubumenyi mu by’ubuzima bw’imyororokere yamenya ate uwamuteye inda?

Niba umuntu atazi ibijyanye n’uburumbuke bwe cyangwa ubwa mugenzi we, ubwabyo bisobanuye ko badashobora kumenya ibyo gusama n’igihe cyabyo.
Mu rwego rwo guha agaciro uku kwemeranya ko kanaka ariwe wateye inda, hagakwiye no kwibazwa ibi bikurikira:

Mu gihe uwasamye yaba yarahuye n’abasore barenze umwe, ko bizwi ko intanga ngabo ishobora kumara iminsi itatu itarapfa ikibitse neza ahabugenewe mu nda y’umukobwa cyangwa umugore, ubwo ku mukobwa cyangwa umugore wakoze imibonano mpuzabitsina n’abagabo cyangwa abasore barenze umwe muri ya minsi azamenya se w’umwana ate?

Mu bigaragara abashinjanya gutera inda bakwiye kubanza gusesengura babyitondeye byaba na ngombwa bakitabaza abaganga, kuko rimwe na rimwe ababyeyi bihakana abana babo bahamya ko atari bo bababyaye.

Gushinjanya inda byari bikwiye gukorwa hashingiwe ku bimenyetso bifatika bya siyansi kuko byagabanya umubare w’abana bavuka nyuma ba se bakabihakana cyangwa ba nyina bakabatwerera abatarababyaye.

Ibi byaba umwe mu miti y’amakimbirane ajya agaragara haba mu rubyiruko rwitana ba mwana ku wateye inda n’arangwa mu miryango imwe n’imwe hibazwa ku babyeyi b’abana runaka.


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